We all have unresolved issues - issues from past, that maybe involves others, issues from the present which we find it more convenient to ignore, in the process forgetting that it is brewing poison inside. Identifying problems from the past is the first step -like it is said a problem well defined is half solved, the other half is accepting responsibility for our own actions. We are always in a rush these days and with all the talk about "positive" thinking, live in the present, introspection is treated with disdain.
I personally believe in living in the present, but then I also do resolve my issues from time to time. It is important to review your life periodically and address subjects that might bring up painful memories. In the process it is very easy to plunge into "self-pity " mode ,and this where the second step of accountability comes in.
The society today teaches us a lot about our rights and privileges , but talk about accountability is smothered and faint. Accepting your responsibility in the events in the past - forgiving all , most importantly yourself is of prime importance. Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting , it is simply accepting the situation for what it is , and choosing to let it go. Every mirror needs a wipe from time to time to reflect light and happiness. The longer you suppress and avoid your past, the more distorted the images will be . Believing that ignoring or distancing your self from it will make it go away is simply being naive. So be bold and embrace your past today !
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