Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Hugs and cuddles



Hugs and cuddles and kisses - the language of love.No words needed, no cleverness, just pouring out of pure love. What is it about hugs, that bypasses the need to say anything? What is it about kisses, that makes us feel so special?As for cuddles, anyone who has had their child cuddle up to them, or their beloved, knows that the feeling of security, contentment surpasses any other emotion.

Hugs are spontaneous, when neither words nor handshakes can express our pleasure, we resort to displaying our emotions the best we can. Warm hugs, uncomfortable hugs, tight hugs, or simply unsure hugs, they come in all variety. Hugging someone and being hugged back is return, I believe is the best gesture of friendship and love.

Hugging is letting the hearts converse in their own language, a language of love, admiration and respect. Letting someone enter your personal bubble, you space, does require that you be trusting and generous. A genuinely warm hug does leave a trace of that person's essence on you - an assurance of being cared for.

Add a serving of laughter to it and you have heaven here on earth. You can fake a smile, you can fake tears, but laughter, the pure feeling of joy connects you to life.

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