1. Every healthy relation is based on the balance of give and take.The seeds of discontent is set when you perceive you give more than you receive. Communicate this to your partner, before it grows into an uncontrollable weed.
2. Expectations : Set realistic expectations. The more you expect, the more the chances of disappointment . This is not to say to, have no expectations, just be realistic and be flexible , because time changes, we change and circumstances change too.
3. Blind trust will only bring grief on you . Trust, but with your eyes open.
4Love, respect and honesty and communication : are the foundation on which a relationship is based on. Love is what love does. You can say all you want, but actions definitely speak louder than words. Respect in a relationship means respecting each others views, freedom and space. As for honesty, if you can't be who you are with each other, the relationship is doomed.
5.Healthy finance = healthy relationship. Money matters a lot in a relationship.Love definitely is easier in good times.
For a relationship to thrive, you also have to understand that all relationships have their shares of ups and downs. Even the seemingly perfect couples, happy and content, have been through rough patches. Don't let what "should be" cloud your judgment about what you have.
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